Couples Conversations™Built by a couples therapist. Designed so you never need one.
Couples Conversations™ is five books and 1,500 guided questions, a card deck, an app, and a free two-minute quiz. One way of talking to each other, built by a therapist.
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The books
Five volumes of 300 questions each, and the 1,500-question Master Edition. Paperback, hardcover, or Kindle.
From $12.99See the books
The app
All 1,500 questions, the quiz, and a daily check-in on iPhone and Android.
$24.99 onceSee the appThe Card Deck
150 new questions in three levels, Curious, Closer, and Honest. Print it at home tonight.
$14See the deckThe Relationship Quiz
Seventeen honest statements, no scores and no grades, and a clear read in two minutes.
FreeTake the quizVideos
Eleven short talks on the questions couples ask most.
FreeWatchThe Relationship Workbook
100+ guided conversations from the same method, free in your inbox in two minutes.
FreeGet itAlso free: articles, practical ten-minute reads on communication, money, and connection.
Where are the two of you, really?
Some couples struggle with connection, others with communication or trust. Out of the seventeen dimensions of a healthy relationship, see where yours shines and where it needs help. No scores, no grades, and your answers stay on the page.
Take the quizNot sure where to begin? Start with the free workbook: 100+ guided conversations.Five volumes. One Master Edition. 1,500 questions.
Vol. 1Strengthen Your FoundationPaperback on Amazon
Vol. 2Strengthen CommunicationPaperback on Amazon
Vol. 3Reignite the SparkPaperback on Amazon
Vol. 4Deepen Your ConnectionPaperback on Amazon
Vol. 5Building Our FuturePaperback on Amazon
All five volumes in one hardcover. 1,500 questions.
Fifteen areas of a relationship, a checkbox beside every question, and a reflection closing every chapter. The keepsake edition, and the gift that lasts.
Hardcover on AmazonEvery question, in your pocket.
All 1,500 questions, the quiz, a daily check-in, and a place to keep the ones you want to come back to. One purchase, on iPhone and Android.
Take one thing home. The free workbook, 100+ guided conversations, in your inbox in two minutes.“I absolutely love this book.” Dr. John Gottman
“I absolutely love this book. It is an incredibly useful handbook for couples to build essential aspects of their relationship together. Thoughtful, practical, and deeply insightful.”
“Most couples want to have meaningful and bonding conversations but simply don’t know how to begin or what to say. Couples Conversations is the perfect handbook to help partners support each other and discover what each needs in their relationship.”
Two minutes on why this exists.
I am a licensed clinical social worker, a Certified Gottman Therapist, and a professor at Yeshiva University. Couples Conversations came out of one pattern I kept seeing in my office: couples who loved each other and had simply stopped asking questions.
What readers say about the questions.
“Me and my partner have been together so long that sometimes we get lost in the comfortable-ness with each other, so were on autopilot. This book helped us reconnect with each other and helped us remember why we first fell in love.”
CristalAmazon review · Master Edition
“Couples have a challenging time coming up with ways to have the deep conversations and explore each other's thinking and memories. This book really helps and fills that need!”
MichelleAmazon review · Master Edition
“I was impressed at the thought and detail that went into this book and if you are looking to strengthen any part of your relationship with a partner I would recommend reading this.”
Marion ScottAmazon review · Master Edition
Before you go. The Relationship Workbook is free: 100+ guided conversations to start tonight.